Termux crashing when I do xfce4-session on debian based distros

Basically termux crashes and literally my phone freaks out(OneUI becomes REALLY unresponsive, search apps randomly opens and nothing besides my wallpaper shows up for a full 4-5 seconds), it's not phantom processes I double checked and I can run xfce4 on arch Linux using termux-x11* if I use vncserver the xfce4 is debian's xfce4, and I want to install the normal xfce4. How can I do that?