or what do you guys wear when you want to dress up but not look stuffy?
This is an area I feel like women have a lot more options. They have a version of dressed up for work/funeral and a version of dressed up for getting after it, dancing, partying, etc.
I feel like my options are a "nice" t-shirt which feels too casual next to my wife in a sultry dress or a button up shirt or ocbd which feels way too stuffy for partying on NYE.
I sometimes go with a knit polo in these types of situations, but since we're gonna be dancing a good amount on NYE, I feel like that'll be too hot.
Going to not-quite-a-club, not-quite-a-concert, but my question can encompass a broader range of situations.