strange work of adaptive mesh

ji guys! I have a lot of problems with the first layer. this is my bed mesh with cold plate. i have have the super panda, I have big problems with the offset calibration because I use the probe_calibrate with a 0,1mm metal sheet (obviously with hot nozzle and plate), so I start the print, it start good but after some lines the nozzle is too close from the plate, so I move mualually the offset and some lines later the nozzle is too close again. if I stop and restart the print the offset is fucked. pleas help me because my brain is exploding