Dressing to de-emphasize masculine features (without going too feminine)

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Hey, y'all. There might be a better community to ask this, but I (AMAB) have realized I don't want to be perceived as a man anymore, but I also don't want to look super fem. I'm still figuring out what that means, but in the meantime, I'm trying to find ways to de-emphasize the classic masculine facial and body features:
- Stronger forehead brow bone (I think this would mostly taken be care of with a haircut, but I'm sure the right glasses can help, too)
- Larger feet
- Larger hands
- Large ribcage
- Broad shoulders
- Tree trunk legs

I've been six feet tall since I was 8 years old, but height isn't really something I'm worried about. I guess my main concern is making sure I don't go so wide I turn featureless.

Brands/items I like

- I found a denim duster that accidentally got thrown in the men's section of a thrift store last year. It's technically a woman's coat, but by some miracle, it fits, and I love it
- I'm also a big fan of Kapital's Nime pants in the black colorway. I also have them in the khaki colorway, but I've been having more trouble figuring out how to style them
- I have Studio Nicholson's Cabo wool coat, which I'm a big fan of. It's a little oversized, and it feels like the Raglan sleeves do a solid job of de-emphasizing the shoulders
- I'm just a fan of big, flowy coats in general

I've also tried Black Ficus's palazzo pants (brown), and Scott Fraser Collection's wide boy trousers (navy slub). I like them both a lot, but I'm still working up the nerve to wear them more often

Other info for the bot

- Ideal max per piece: $200 USD (hoping to shoot below that, but absolute max is $1500)
- Typically wear 33x32 pants and large tees
- Can reach NYC, DC, and Philly pretty easily via Amtrak; no major preference for buying in-person/online/secondhand
- No real timing/urgency concerns