Uniqlo U jacket sizing: women's vs men's?

I have the hooded blouson in a unisex small, and it fits well. I want to get this women's zip up short blouson, but I'm not sure what size to go with (https://www.uniqlo.com/us/en/products/E476939-000/00?colorDisplayCode=31&sizeDisplayCode=002). I also wear a small in the unisex linen blend shirt jacket which has a body width of 22.5" while this one has a width of 23". This jacket is much more cropped though, which I like, but I don't want it to sit fully above the belt. It's hard to tell where it would be from the measurements alone (22" length for the small, 22.5" for the medium). This guy is 5'8" and wearing mid-high rise pants with the small for reference (https://www.tiktok.com/@jae.for.jason/video/7495649230992919854). I'm 5'7" but tend to wear pants lower, so I'm not sure it will hit where I'd want it to.

Should I go with the medium if I don't want it to hit any higher than that, even if I'd probably prefer the sleeve length and overall proportions on the small?