seeking advice
Good evening, I apologise wholeheartedly for any disturbance I might cause with my question, but I believe that this is the right place for it.
I have been invited to a restaurant by my dearest parents to celebrate the end of my national external examinations.
Picking out an outfit has proven to be quite difficult, since I am hoping to achieve an effortlessly elegant appearance, not too casual, but not completely formal either.
I will apologise once again, but this time it is for the quality of my photos and the state of clothing itself, it is quite late and ironing them at this hour would be laughable.
Please, if any of you were to be so kind and inform me about the flaws of my appearance.
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I don't know if people wear orphaned suit vests like this. Perhaps without the vest?
i agree, without the vest and if you also have a pattenered button down?
i think plain white button downs give way more formal of a vibe than you're looking for
yeah do. a sick fucking camp shirt
I believe I do, yes.
yeah i like it but i might drop the vest. It can sometimes come across as fine dining waiter in so so way to me
i think that would work, are those pants black?
end result of this is more formal than i think he's aiming for
Correct, the pants are black.
that as well
nice dinners with parents call for a nicely patterned button down and slacks to me
Would a navy blue button down be adequate?
as a rule i wouldn't do plain black + plain navy unless you are sure about it
do you have
a chain
or a pearl necklace
to put under the collar
I forgot to mention the fact that the button down is patterned with white flowers.
oh thats fun
Yeah that sounds better
Not too bad
maybe put it all on and take another outfit pic?
I do not usually wear jewelry, but I have two pearl necklaces passed down onto me by my grandmother. One with black pearls, the other with white ones.
accessorizing fuckin rips u should try it
ask me how i know
(its because he wears accessories and he rips)
Could lean into the older style look with a cameo pin on the vest
i think that would work, let's see it boss
BOTH NECKLACES AT THE SAME TIMe
for taking pics this is the easiest way to get a clear photo
It is a bit late as of now, and I would not want to disturb the ones who are asleep. Allow me to discuss the outfit further, pictures of it will be sent here in the early morning.
Also something on the wrists can’t hurt whether that be a bracelet or a watch
man are you fucking with me rn
yo the spider thing rips
This kinda thing as a brooch could be really cute with a sport coat or similar if it's that kinda restaurant
Would a pearl bracelet be the perfect match? Although I fear that it might be too much.
now im not sure if this is a troll
Excuse me?
Pearl bracelet would be pretty fire, esp if you got other pearl accessories to match with
Two pearl necklaces, yes.
:xdcrying: ginsoul please do not hot glue the heirloom pearls into a broach
GLUE THEM
GLUE THE NECKLACES
real fashion is all about DIY action that springs from your heart and your soul
See here this is the hot glue era of the internet and we will not take hot glue slander
no hot glue sucks you need to superglue that shit
https://www.viviennewestwood.com/en-us/watches/the-strand-watch-pink/8050164231071.html clearly u need this asap since it's both pearl a bracelet AND a watch
The Strand Watch
The Strand Watch features an opulent design with three rows of Swarovski glass pearls and a central orb case, adorned with Swarovski crystals. Named after London’s iconic theatre district, it offers a satin sunray dial, with specialist Swiss movement, finished with rose gold-tone hardware.
hot glue will fall apart right in the middle of your dinner
right into your spaghetti
can you handle that
in front of your parents?!?!?!?
dressed in their sunday best!!??!?!?!
In front of ur parents probably the best audience for this scenario
If i had to Choose.
As opposed to what.
Like if it's in front of a guy I don't know that's fine
My parents can't know I glued grandmas pearls together
the viv pearl choker.................
I apologise for the late reply, I had to look up this sentence.
I believe that "fucking with you" is not the right term to use.
It is 1:07 am and I simply do not want to wake anyone up.
they should know its permanent
harlot hands marc jacobs heaven btw
No no, that is not fine, that will replay in my before sleep psychosis for 7 to 12 years
:xd: ok were losing it but try the navy patern shirt and a necklace i think that will be really good imo
try photoshopping it together
hey can i ask you a question dude i promise i'm not trying to be an asshole
pinkkea please
what
i do this
this is how i plan my best outfits
I will be up in about six hours, I hope that it isn't a great inconvenience.
no problem at all
Of course.
this is just an example of how you can use a beautiful google slide as your creative canvas
can i ask are you planning on using this outfit for two occasions?
It was supposed to be an outfit for a wedding, yes, but dinner with my parents will be a much earlier event.
That bag is fire tf
kate spadeeeeee :letsfuckinggo:
She doesnt miss
fwiw werg if u missed it brat apologized and i purged chat
not trying to do anything i wanted to make it clear that you weren't trolling
my sincerest apologies
I highly appreciate the thoughtfulness of your action.
Oh i thought the trolling was referring to the brooch
let's get back on topic for you. in the morning can you put in some outfit pics with the necklace(s) alternate shirt, and maybe this white shirt without the vest?
There is no need to weep over spilled milk as they say in Poland.
You are forgiven, and thank you for clarifying your intentions.
Anyways yeah, try the new combo when you wake up
I promise that I will do it as soon as I freshen up in the morning.
If I remember correctly, the button down should look similar to the one in the picture.
that should be great actually
Would the black pearl necklace be a good option?
I believe that it might match the similar in shade pants splendidly.
worth a shot!
easier for us to see it all together 🙂
Yes, of course it would be much easier.
I should have asked for advice sooner.
this space is always open to anyone asking for advice if you need clothing advice in the future as well