My friend who lives 200~ miles away has 90 ping on my server and 40 ping on hypixel (600+miles)

I've been looking in to ways to resolve this, as it seems his connection is taking a wildly inefficient route Tracing route to <my-ip> over a maximum of 30 hops 1 3 ms 6 ms 3 ms RBE771 [10.0.0.1] 2 4 ms 3 ms 4 ms 192.168.1.254 3 9 ms 6 ms 7 ms <his-ip> 4 7 ms 12 ms 6 ms 99.164.208.58 <Virginia? 5 * * * Request timed out. 6 * 22 ms 19 ms 32.130.24.49 < dallas tx? 7 * * * Request timed out. 8 62 ms 63 ms 64 ms altice-ic-335623.ip.twelve99-cust.net [213.248.88.229] <DENMARK!?!? 9 * * * Request timed out. I asked chat gpt for help and it recommended i use a reverse proxy / vps and reroute traffic, im self hosting on residential 1 gigabit fiber internet and dont want to pay if possible, can someone help me understand what I need to do here to fix this, and possible services I can use? I have 3 ports open for minecraft (25565, 19132(geyser) and 24454(vc), and a couple ports open for terraria/ark servers)
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Error110
Error1103mo ago
there was a image to describe this but try getting a oracle free tier server and running a proxy on it that connects to the server
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Dont this is why you dont self host residential ISPs are very unoptimized
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
could i reroute all my ports for all my game servers with the oracle vps? sorry if im not saying it correctly im pretty new to networking
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Yes but where are you located?
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Amarillo TX slight north of dallas i spent 250$ on a mini pc with a 8-core 5800u and 64gb of ram when id spend 20+ a month for a server with a 5950x and 8gb of ram Im pretty happy and regret free with making my investment back in a year : ) and i can also run 4-8 various game servers at a time B)
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Yes but your not factoring in the electricity and the need of a enterprise internet link theres a reason no decently sized server self hosts Whos your ISP? send their AS
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Optimum
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Also if that thing is running game servers 24/7 im not sure if theres a big chance it will reach a year, assuming for that price that its used
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
as? 35w max less than a monthly payment of a vps per year
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
AS54004 Optimum WiFi - bgp.tools
AS54004 (Optimum WiFi)'s is an 13 year old BGP network that is peering with 341 other networks and has 3 upstream carriers
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
was open box
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
is it this? should probably open the case too LOL
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
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Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
let it breathe
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
ive checked temps and they stay cool under light loads i dont plan on overloading him too much
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Can u go on https://bgp.tools/ rq and send ur as
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Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
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lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
using Optimum (AS19108)
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
amarillo tx you said
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Yup i can send my ip if needed starts with a 50
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Ah that be better lol if you want just send the subnet like when u click on ur ip it sends the subnet so its all the announced ranges not ur exact ip
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Meh just dont ddos me B)
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Alright so this is your connection
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
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Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
You got Arelion Cogent and Lumen which isnt too bad in this case your friend probably has the shitty ISP
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Not sure if it matters but he has about 40~ ping on hypixel (ashburn va) and he lives in kansas and has about 90 ping on my server
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Yeah it can all be routes
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
when i am 1/2 or 1/3 of the distane
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
you have arelion cogent and lumen, his ISP may have only GTT or so
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Ah
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Which makes it do a big trip to reach you thats not how internet always works lets say you have a cable to your neighboors house and then another to the house across the street, you can reach both in only 1 step but your neighboor would need 2 steps to reach the one across the street now multiply this by thousands and thats pretty much how the internet works
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Ah Thank you so much
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Also hypixel uses cloudflare Spectrum/magic transit
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
so nothing i can do to alleviate his issues?
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Cloudflare is the most connected network in the world so its pretty much 4 hops away from everyone You can most recommended would be getting a carrier grade uplink but thats expensive so
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Ah Well Thats alright Thank you again I guess renting does have its uses Hmm i wonder if theres a way I can use a SP for just their connection and get my machine over there so i dont have to worry about spending 20$+ a month for 2 cores and 8gb
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
If you want a cost effective solution id recommend finding a VPS reseller that uses Datapacket on Dallas and using it as a Tunnel/Proxy, Your ISP has direct peering (6 hops) to datapacket and they are very well connected so should have low latency across the US
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Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
You can, its called colocation i really doubt they will accept a mini pc though its usually sold per U servers And its not cheap 1U on like a entry level cheap provider its like $50-60/m
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Holy moly yikes self hosting it is
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
A lot
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Okay another question if you dont mind
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
security, latency, technology, etc issues
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Sorry this will be the last
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
not to mention your ISP could possibly sue you or at least ban you
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
What sue for..?
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
most residential ISPs are not happy with people hosting servers on their network its usually in the contract
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
thats bullshit
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Breach of contract i really doubt they will sue but they can at least terminate you
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Damn that sucks Is there any ISPs that provide residential and have what I'd need to get a good connection around the nation/world Im currently a college student and have the mini pc hooked up at home but i plan to build a home server once i get my own house and shit
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Depending on how scummy the ISP is (they can be very scummy) they may claim that you running a server caused significant increased costs on their network or whatever its very rare just avoid having a technician visit you, dont get DDoSd or recieve many players and should be fine
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Yeah my ass im using less bandwidth than a 480p youtube video Do you think under 30-40 at most on all servers is fine?
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
and dont foward too many ports they may log that Which?
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
^^
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Residential and good connection dont go along lol Only really on Europe American ISPs are kinda shitty to self host You could try a business line
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Damn, would using enterprise be worth it
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
1g on verizon business i think its like $175/m I mean latency wise yeah
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Oh fuck
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
cost wise not for a 1U
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
I guess highspeed residential it is I got a sick 4u 9950x build planned
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Thats business, basically like residential except you have less throttle, more customization and more freedom, nothing close to a dedicated/carrier line
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
gonna ge a 16u home rack 15" deep and load it with goodies
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Reason?
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Home server stuff LLMs game servers jellyfin Uhh GPUs for ai image gen
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
thats gonna be like $2k no?
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
NAS in the future as wekk Yeeeeah its a future project def but I want to self host a large media server and game servers for friends and familys have mc modpacks, terraria, ark servers etc Hold on
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
i mean
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
thats like almost 2 years worth of renting a 9950x
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
if it interests you at all All 16 cores?
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Yeah
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Damn
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
ivse seen Ryzen 9 dedicated servers for as low as $130/m add the $70 for internet also do you have QoS router?
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
QoS?
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Quality of service
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
The real cost is gonna be the NAS though I plan on having a 12 bay with 24tb hdds once i build up enough cash to make that kind of purchase Not sure, I just have a standard gateway modem
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
basically prevents your home computer from lagging the hell out of the servers whenever you download something
lucridd
lucriddOP3mo ago
Ah Yeah I have no clue, but if I had to guess probably not But thank you a ton for helping me out, it means a lot Sad to see theres no free easy answer, but atleast its not too big of an issue to obsess over
Upioti
Upioti3mo ago
Yeah theres a reason so many hosts exist and are profitable As i recommended, use a vps as a proxy if you care about the ping

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