edit:update now worked. I find it interesting that having programs like this can stop updates but distrobox could help avoid these issues. Dunno if anything like this happens on windows but then u never notice it so maybe the update telling us the exact problem is actually helpful here I dunno.
You can get the same issue in a distrobox, I think the actual error is more useful than some random code like "0x035645 has occured" that you get in Windows