Starting out with ties
Hey,
I've been getting into this whole "preppy streetwear" thing and I want to start wearing ties, except I know absolutely nothing about them. I'm 19 and haven't yet worn ties in any setting. I'm looking for advice, on how much they should cost, the different types, the different sizes and lengths, fit...
If there are any threads like my question already, I couldn't find them, so feel free to redirect me there 🙂
Thanks
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i got into ties mostly through trial and error and copying other people's fits lol
there might be a guide in #fashion-guides also worth reading but-
commonly ties are in silk (the traditional pointy tie), or sometimes knit
length and width have some degree of variation but, generally a wider tie (2.75" and up) is better. the length will also be impacted by how you tie it
i get mine through goodwill or flea markets so I'm only paying a couple bucks per tie (ymmv); buying them new will obviously cost more
the biggest things you can do are look for inspiration and practice tying and wearing a tie.
it may be weird at first especially in casual fits but you get used to it
these are also good reads on people workshopping casual fits with ties https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1131638836485697617/1263134330662948874 https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1131638836485697617/1263504056442421248 https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1267907872159957086
Thanks zeo 😄
truly super helpful 😎
Yeah getting them second hand is probably the move tbh
gonna read through those threads
if you're getting them secondhand, you'll want to check for any holes or wear and any loose stitching on the back
most ivy-inspired brands (brooks bros, polo ralph lauren, lands end, j.press) will be good bets but no-name brands can also work; it depends on your taste
Gotcha
Ty
looking it up on vinted I see a bunch even from designer brands for around 10 bucks or less
So I need to look for pictures of the back side? and a loose stitch there is a bad sign?
(because that could break down the whole tie or?)
exactly - it's not difficult to fix if so, it's just annoying to tie (you can also probably justify a lowball this way)
got it
and for colors and patterns and shape I do pretty much whatever I like right? 😂
Seeing the wide variety of ties worn on this server
was thinking of getting a yellow one too to match my onitsuka tigers, how'd you feel about that
With like a pair of wide jeans, a simple shirt and a trucker on top
Or should I refrain from trying to match it to things?
Thrift stores are great for tying on a bunch of different shapes and styles of tie to see what you like. There’s usually a whole mess of ties from the last 30-40 years at stores I go to.
sounds good
I really haven't checked out most thrift stores in my city yet tbh
Yk what, let's do it
tomorrow im gonna go on a thrift tour 😂
i often use ties as a way to pick up the other colors of the fit, like the red in the socks or the gold of the hat/watch.
easy way to do it is to wear the intended fit when shopping and then try on the ties
that makes sense!
Thanks
I have a saved eBay search that might help
This search has wool, cotton, and linen ties, too. The item guide covers this but those are usually more seasonal than silk and tend to have a more matte look.
It's probably worth filtering for length as well. If you're average height you'll mostly want classic ties, but if you find that classic tie lengths are too long or short you can buy short or long ties, respectively.
^^Fixed the link. The original link I shared included materials that had a % sign in it and I guess eBay can't handle that
Feel free to add a material filter for silk, wool, cotton, linen, etc.
ayy thanks 🙂