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•Created by ilya on 6/2/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Help with cute queer clothes now that I feel like myself

i'm in a similar place myself! i think kyn's post that carrion linked above is a great start. i've also started more deliberately seeking out womenswear inspo and including it in my inspiration folder--even if its stuff i don't necessarily see myself wearing that exact fit (said folder includes a Selkie runway dress, for example), it helps me think through what speaks to me, what excites me, and how i can sneak those ideas into my fits also a matter of putting shit on, i think--when i'm out shopping lately i tend to touch and try on more and more things that i would normally hesitate about, just to see how it looks on my body & gauge my emotional reactions. it can be a fraught shift so i'm making sure i really feel good about it. hope this makes sense and/or is helpful ..!!

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•Created by lyon on 5/19/2025 in #fashion-discussion

my experience getting into men's clothes as a t-boy (an anecdote)

i've been meaning to write smthn like this for ages but i had no idea how to go about it. so appreciate u writing this up, so well-written and close to home

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•Created by Yakkeks on 1/3/2025 in #fashion-discussion

Yakkeks Embroidery Diary

wow gorgeous work

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•Created by epistrophy on 4/17/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Help me go wider

nothing to add but to say im a big fan if ur fits

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•Created by epistrophy on 4/17/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Help me go wider

it totally works here

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•Created by truedough on 4/3/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Hawaiian Shirt with a Suit?!?

this is another take that sticks out to me accessories, shoe choice etc make the pairing look very deliberate https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1116800072093532191/1260634831436644423

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•Created by Saltbender on 3/23/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Which shoe

big fan of the mjs

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/19/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Favorite Fashion Publications - Topic of the day 3/19/25

houyhnhnm has rlly fun photography but i cant read anything ^^ dazed korea has fun styling occasionally

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•Created by cornvlad on 3/14/2025 in #questions-and-advice

how bad is manhatten thrifting

might b useful

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•Created by cornvlad on 3/14/2025 in #questions-and-advice

how bad is manhatten thrifting

https://backseatdriver.blog/2023/12/31/a-guide-to-menswear-shopping-in-nyc-for-2024/ server goat Charlie etc etc

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•Created by zeometer on 3/5/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Polka Dot Shirt Styling Suggestions

but agree the turtleneck does throw me off

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•Created by zeometer on 3/5/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Polka Dot Shirt Styling Suggestions

i like the idea of 3; leaning into a kind of gorpy look is very cute to me

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•Created by circleframes on 3/4/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Flare/letting hems out

agree

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•Created by Walmart the Conqueror on 3/2/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Pulling off oversized/relaxed clothing

nothing much to add to already good advice, but excited to see you go w i d e r

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/2/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Top of WAYWT: February 2025 - Topic of the day 3/2/25

agree! and hey this includes u leo, the embroidery you're doing adds so much to your already strong wardrobe :-)

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•Created by Clark'sDesertBot on 3/2/2025 in #topic-of-the-day

Top of WAYWT: February 2025 - Topic of the day 3/2/25

we need to revisit this sibess fit https://discord.com/channels/1116793467654381685/1116800072093532191/1340081645319094302

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•Created by catfly on 3/1/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Is this shorts too big?

looks good to my eye as-is! i think the tight shirt compared to the wide pant makes the pant look bigger. tucking a slightly oversize t will even out the proportions imo.

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•Created by cornvlad on 2/27/2025 in #questions-and-advice

preowned shirts

pre cheap and plentiful for spear points is vintage arrow shirts on ebay

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•Created by Sam on 2/18/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Does it make any sense to wear ties?

don't be discouraged yet :)

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•Created by Sam on 2/18/2025 in #questions-and-advice

Does it make any sense to wear ties?

if you like the way a tie looks, or your inspo has a lot of people wearing ties, it's worth it to keep trying and ask us for feedback!

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